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Re:align* Therapy

Modern counselling for complex lives

Gestalt therapy and psychological counselling by Tanya Anpilogova

I am here to
support you if

you feel as though you’re living a life that isn’t truly your own

you’re finding it hard to understand your emotions

you feel lost about what you truly want and where you are heading

it feels hard to cope with a loss or to let go of the past

relationships aren’t working out, connecting with others feels difficult, or you feel alone even among people

your relationship with your partner feels like it’s drifting apart and you’re unsure which direction to take

you’re struggling to accept yourself, your body, and your vulnerability

your path to becoming a parent brings unexpected challenges

being a parent feels more challenging than you expected it to be

you find it difficult to bond with your child

exploring your sexuality brings up questions that feel hard to voice

you’ve grown up between cultures and are searching for a sense of belonging and home

you long for a space where you can simply be yourself and feel supported

your career path feels unclear and you’re looking for support to define meaningful goals and accomplish them

    * Not sure if your situation fits? Please reach out anyway. Your circumstances may be unique, and that’s okay. Together, we can explore whether and how I can support you.

    Specialised areas
    I work in

    Gestalt therapy:

    Rather than focusing only on symptoms, Gestalt therapy looks at how you experience your world — your emotions, body sensations, thoughts, and behaviors — right here and now. This holistic awareness helps you see old patterns more clearly and opens space for new choices and healthier ways of relating to yourself and others. Gestalt therapy can support you with:

    • understanding how tension shows up in your daily life, and exploring new ways to respond to it
    • reconnecting with your emotions, needs, and sense of vitality
    • exploring your identity in a safe, non-pathologising supportive space, strengthening your sense of who you are and finding more confidence in expressing yourself
    • improving communication, exploring recurring relationship patterns, and developing more authentic contact with others
    • learning to remain grounded in difficult feelings without avoiding or numbing them
    • helping you meet life transitions, loss, or ambiguity with greater stability and insight
    • gently increasing awareness of how past events influence your present life, at your own pace
    • reconnecting with creativity, spontaneity, and a fuller expression of yourself

    Perinatal mental health:

    • doubts, anxiety, and fears around pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting
    • emotional difficulties when planning for a pregnancy, going through it, and adjusting to changes in your body and lifestyle
    • emotional challenges related to planning for and undergoing IVF
    • postpartum emotional struggles
    • difficulties bonding with your child
    • tension in the parents’ relationship during pregnancy and after the baby is born
    • finding your way through alternative routes to becoming a parent
    • parenting in ways that fall outside common societal  expectations
    • navigating reproductive choices
    • coping with perinatal loss and trauma

    Neuro- divergence:

    • understanding and exploring neurodivergence and how affects your life experiences
    • coping strategies for emotional regulation
    • managing anxiety, burnout and sensory overwhelm
    • exploring identity, combating internalised stigma or shame and fostering self-acceptance
    • supporting authentic self-expression and exploring ways to live safely and authentically in a society structured around neurotypical expectations
    • developing social and communication skills and strategies that feel natural
    • managing social anxiety and navigating misinterpretations of neurodivergent communication styles
    • improving executive functioning
    • navigating discrimination or misunderstanding
    • healing from neurodivergence-related trauma

    Trauma, grief & loss:

    • reliving the traumatic event through intrusive memories or flashbacks
    • feeling unsafe, even when the danger is gone
    • difficulty managing or calming strong emotions
    • struggling with feelings of shame, guilt, or self-blame
    • challenges with trust, connection, and maintaining healthy relationships
    • deep sadness, loneliness, or a sense of despair
    • guilt or lingering regrets connected surrounding the loss
    • feeling stuck or unable to move forward with life
    • loss of identity or purpose after the loss (“Who am I now?”)
    • worry or anxiety about what the future holds
    • struggling to adjust to major life changes

    Sexuality & intimacy:

    • doubts about your own feelings and experiences: “Is what I’m feeling normal?”, “Is there something wrong with me?”, “Do others experience this too?”, “What feels healthy or authentic for me?”
    • low or missing sexual desire, if that causes worry, affects your sense of closeness, and begins to impact your quality of life
    • pain or discomfort during intimacy that isn’t explained by medical factors
    • challenges with open, honest intimate communication between partners
    • mismatched in partners' sexual needs and the tension that can come with that
    • difficult feelings connected to past sexual or relational experiences
    • anxiety, shame, or insecurity around sexuality
    • rebuilding intimacy after major life changes, stress and childbirth
    • support around sexuality and gender identity topics

    Cultural diversity:

    • complexities of living between cultures
    • differences in communication, social norms, emotional expression, non-verbal cues
    • bicultural or multicultural identity and mixed-heritage experiences
    • cross-cultural romantic or family relationships
    • tensions or misunderstandings rooted in cultural differences, including conflicting expectations around gender roles, parenting, or personal boundaries
    • complex grief tied to leaving one’s community, identity, or routines
    • challenges adapting to multicultural workplaces or educational environments
    • search for a safe space to process microaggressions, bias, discrimination and minority stress

    The values I bring into my work

    respect

    lack of judgement

    honesty

    sensitivity to context and culture

    gentleness

    safety

    What I offer

    Individual therapy & psychological counselling:

    Support tailored to your personal journey

    Career counselling & coaching:

    Guidance for professional growth and life direction

    Couples, partner & family therapy:

    Helping relationships grow and heal

    Group therapy & support groups:

    Safe spaces for sharing, learning, and connection

    Who I work with

    adults 21+ of all identities
    couples, partners and families
    groups

    About Me:

    Portrait of Tanya Anpilogova, looking into the camera, slightly smiling

    I am a psychologist, certified Gestalt psychotherapist and lawyer with a deep, lifelong curiosity about people and their inner worlds.

    My multicultural background, i.e. growing up with multiple languages and living and working across several continents, strongly informs my work as a therapist. It allows me to offer clients a truly culturally sensitive, inclusive, safe and affirming therapeutic space.

    In my practice, I strive to be respectful, non-judgmental, and compassionate, supporting clients as they explore their emotions, relationships, and personal challenges. I understand the impact of identity, culture, sexuality, gender and social context on mental health, and I integrate this awareness into every session.

    Fairness, honesty, and genuine care are at the core of my approach. I provide psychological counselling and therapy to individuals seeking personal growth, emotional support, or deeper self-understanding, and draw on the Gestalt holistic approach to help clients develop awareness, resilience, and meaningful change.

    Who I am

    My Credentials:

    Academic education

    Developmental Psychology and Psychopathology

    Varna Free University

    Clinical Psychology

    Lomonosov Moscow State University

    Law

    Universität zu Köln

    Law and the Global Economy

    New York University

    Corporate and Financial Services Law

    National University of Singapore

    Psychotherapy training

    Gestalt Psychotherapy

    Bulgarian Institute for Gestalt Therapy

    Gestalt Therapy of Sexuality

    École de Sexothérapie à Orientation Gestaltiste

    Specialised competency training in psychology and psychotherapy

    Perinatal psychology and psychology of parenting
    Fertility counselling
    Perinatal loss and reproductive trauma counselling
    Psychotherapy of trauma, loss and grief
    Counselling cross-cultural families and third-culture individuals
    Trauma-informed therapy with clients from vulnurable groups
    Psychosexual therapy and sexology
    Counselling on matters of sexuality and gender
    Gestalt therapy of sexuality
    Affirmative therapy with neurodivergent clients
    Certified training as Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist
    Certified training as ADHD Clinical Services Provider
    Gestalt therapy for couples
    Emotionally focused therapy for couples
    Projective techniques in psychotherapy & counselling
    Group therapy and facilitating peer support groups

      Professional affiliations

      European Association for Gestalt Therapy
      Bulgarian Association for Gestalt Therapy
      International Association for the Advancement of Gestalt Therapy
      International Society for Prenatal and Perinatal Psychology and Medicine

      FAQ: Frequently asked questions

      How many sessions does it usually take?

      It’s difficult to say exactly how many sessions will be needed, especially before we’ve had the chance to discuss your specific concerns.

      If you seek support for a particular issue within psychological counselling — such as career guidance or perinatal or fertility counseling, we can clarify your needs in the first session and agree on an estimated number of sessions to address them.

      For personal therapy, however, it’s harder to set a precise timeframe, as the process depends on how our work develops and the challenges you may face. Typically, I begin with a few sessions — usually three to five — to get to know you and help clarify your needs. After that, we review progress, I share my preliminary observations, and you can decide whether to continue therapy.

      In my experience, some clients find answers to their questions within two to three months of weekly sessions, while others, depending on their needs and goals, choose longer-term therapy lasting six months or more.

      How long is a session?

      Individual sessions are 55 minutes long. Occasionally, if needed and time allows, they may run a few minutes over.

      Couples or partner sessions last 75 or 90 minutes.

      Group sessions typically run 2 to 3 hours.

      How much does a session cost?

      I work on a sliding scale, so the fee depends on your financial situation and income. The lowest rate, reserved for socially vulnerable individuals and people grieving perinatal loss, is €50 / 97,79 lv. I invite you to get in touch to discuss what the rate would suit your financial situation.

      Do you work with any life challenges?

      No, I have professional and thematic boundaries and don’t take on every type of issue. For example, I don’t work with chemical addiction. I recommend scheduling a brief “chemistry call” so we can discuss your situation and determine whether I can be of help in your case.

      Where do sessions take place?

      I mainly work online. In rare cases, I also see clients in my office in central Varna.

      What languages do you work in?

      I work in English, Bulgarian, German, and Russian. During sessions, I can combine languages when it’s helpful — for example, with third-culture individuals or intercultural couples.

      Where can I find reviews of your work? Why don't you publish them on your website?

      I don’t publish client reviews, and that’s a deliberate choice. I don’t feel it’s ethical for me to ask clients for testimonials or to post them publicly. It can be hard for clients to say no to a professional they trust, and the ethical standards of my profession don’t allow me to exploit clients for personal purposes. Requesting and posting reviews would amount to using clients for my own promotion, and goes against my principles.

      A review always reflects my work with a specific person and their unique story. Even if I’ve helped someone in a situation similar to the one described in a review, that doesn’t guarantee I could help another client in the same way. Publishing positive testimonials could give a misleading impression that I can help anyone facing similar challenges — and that simply isn’t true.

      My clients do share feedback with me, of course, but that feedback is confidential and will never be made public.

      What is your educational background?

      I have a traditional psychology education: I earned a master’s degree in psychology and developmental psychopathology and am a qualified psychologist. Later, I specialised in clinical and perinatal psychology, as well as psychosexual counselling, and completed a certification to work with autistic individuals and those with ADHD.

      I also completed a Gestalt psychotherapy training and am a member of several professional Gestalt therapy associations, including the European Association for Gestalt Therapy (EAGT).

      My first degree was in law studies.

      What’s the difference between a psychologist, a psychotherapist, and a psychiatrist? Which one do I need, and what kind of professional are you?

      A psychologist is someone who has received a degree in psychology — that is, they have studied human behavior and general psychological processes. A psychologist can help with navigating life challenges and crisis situations.

      However, a degree in psychology alone is not always enough to understand, for example, why you find yourself facing the same difficulties over and over again, why certain topics evoke strong emotional reactions, or why relationships don’t seem to develop in a satisfying way. Addressing these kinds of issues requires training in psychotherapy. Depending on the country where a psychotherapist practices, such training may require a medical degree or, alternatively, a background in psychology, education, or sociology.

      A psychiatrist is a medical doctor who diagnoses and treats mental illnesses. Psychiatrists typically work with more severe conditions, such as clinical depression. They are licensed to prescribe medication and often rely on it as a primary part of treatment. At the same time, psychiatrists recognize that mental health conditions can also have psychological roots. For this reason, they often refer patients to psychotherapy to explore the underlying psychological factors contributing to their condition.

      My training includes both psychology and psychotherapy, with my psychotherapy education built on a foundation in psychology. I do not diagnose conditions, treat illnesses, or prescribe medication. If at any point I believe it would be beneficial for you to consult a medical professional, I will let you know and, if possible, help you find an appropriate specialist. Any decisions regarding medical treatment will always be yours.

      I invite you to schedule an introductory call so we can talk through your concerns. I’ll share my perspective on which type of specialist might be most helpful and assess whether I’m the right fit for your specific situation. If I find that your needs fall outside my area of expertise, I’ll do my best to recommend qualified colleagues.

      Can we have a quick chat so I can get to know you and ask a few questions before scheduling a session?

      Yes, I offer a brief 15–20 minute free “chemistry call” for potential clients. This gives you a chance to get to know me, ask any questions, and see if it feels comfortable to work together.

      Would individual therapy with you count toward my training Gestalt requirements?

      I am accredited with the EAGT as well as several regional Gestalt associations. If your training institute follows EAGT training standards, then working with me would fulfil the individual therapy requirements of your program. Internationally, many training institutes also recognise therapy hours completed with therapists accredited outside their own umbrella organisation.

      You’re welcome to contact me with more information about your training institute so I can confirm whether my hours would meet their requirements.

      I still have some unanswered questions. How can I clear them up?

      If you have any questions, you’re welcome to send me a message or book a free “chemistry call”, where I’ll do my best to answer anything that’s still on your mind.

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